Comments on: Am I Too Vanilla For BDSM? http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/2009/11/09/bdsm-genre/ Sat, 13 Mar 2010 15:38:35 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Am I Too Vanilla For BDSM? | | Kink Magnet http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/2009/11/09/bdsm-genre/comment-page-1/#comment-573 Am I Too Vanilla For BDSM? | | Kink Magnet Mon, 23 Nov 2009 07:42:53 +0000 http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/?p=754#comment-573 [...] Am I Too Vanilla For BDSM? |. Ping this on Ping.fmTweet This!Share this on FacebookPost this to MySpaceStumble upon something good? Share it on StumbleUponShare this on FriendFeedShare this on del.icio.usPost this on DiigoDigg this!Add this to Google BookmarksPost this to PosterousShare this on TechnoratiPost this to IdenticaShare this on RedditBuzz up!Share this on MixxSeed this on NewsvineMark this on BlogMarksSubmit this to NetvibesShare this on BlinklistShare this on Blogosphere NewsSubmit this to Twittley Posted in BDSM Tags: BDSM « Get Kinky With It | Psychology Today Responses are currently closed, but you can trackback from your own site. [...] [...] Am I Too Vanilla For BDSM? |. Ping this on Ping.fmTweet This!Share this on FacebookPost this to MySpaceStumble upon something good? Share it on StumbleUponShare this on FriendFeedShare this on del.icio.usPost this on DiigoDigg this!Add this to Google BookmarksPost this to PosterousShare this on TechnoratiPost this to IdenticaShare this on RedditBuzz up!Share this on MixxSeed this on NewsvineMark this on BlogMarksSubmit this to NetvibesShare this on BlinklistShare this on Blogosphere NewsSubmit this to Twittley Posted in BDSM Tags: BDSM « Get Kinky With It | Psychology Today Responses are currently closed, but you can trackback from your own site. [...]

]]> By: K.C. http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/2009/11/09/bdsm-genre/comment-page-1/#comment-512 K.C. Wed, 11 Nov 2009 05:12:59 +0000 http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/?p=754#comment-512 @VFG "word porn" -->love it! Seriously though, spot on with your comment, I do need that emotional & romantic connection. @VFG “word porn” –>love it! Seriously though, spot on with your comment, I do need that emotional & romantic connection.

]]> By: VampFanGirl http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/2009/11/09/bdsm-genre/comment-page-1/#comment-511 VampFanGirl Wed, 11 Nov 2009 03:27:11 +0000 http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/?p=754#comment-511 Hmmm...I'm a fan of BDSM. I've read everything from extreme with Joey W. Hill's Nature of Desire series to a more vanilla BDSM like Lora Leigh. For me, it comes down to emotional intensity. Like Lauren Dane said, spanking for just the sake of spanking isn't interesting at all, but the emotional connection or outcome is what interests me. The same goes for more extreme BDSM, I don't like to read kinky smut just for the kinks, I want romance and emotion. Gotta have that or it's just word porn. And I don't think it's wrong one way or another if someone likes BDSM or not. Either way, all of us who read romance are basically indulging in soft porn. *wink* That's kinky in and of itself. You know what's funny though, one thing that weirds me out is sex talk. LOL! I know! I can take the whips, chains, brands, toys, whatever, but sex talk totally breaks the mood for me. For some reason, it just makes me giggle. Great topic K.C.! Hmmm…I’m a fan of BDSM. I’ve read everything from extreme with Joey W. Hill’s Nature of Desire series to a more vanilla BDSM like Lora Leigh. For me, it comes down to emotional intensity. Like Lauren Dane said, spanking for just the sake of spanking isn’t interesting at all, but the emotional connection or outcome is what interests me. The same goes for more extreme BDSM, I don’t like to read kinky smut just for the kinks, I want romance and emotion. Gotta have that or it’s just word porn.

And I don’t think it’s wrong one way or another if someone likes BDSM or not. Either way, all of us who read romance are basically indulging in soft porn. *wink* That’s kinky in and of itself.

You know what’s funny though, one thing that weirds me out is sex talk. LOL! I know! I can take the whips, chains, brands, toys, whatever, but sex talk totally breaks the mood for me. For some reason, it just makes me giggle.

Great topic K.C.!

]]> By: K.C. http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/2009/11/09/bdsm-genre/comment-page-1/#comment-510 K.C. Wed, 11 Nov 2009 03:02:20 +0000 http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/?p=754#comment-510 @Colette I love love love Jaid Black! I blame her for my Viking obsession -can you remember what book you read with BDSM was it that one where he is a murderer and saves her from a crash. @Colette I love love love Jaid Black! I blame her for my Viking obsession -can you remember what book you read with BDSM was it that one where he is a murderer and saves her from a crash.

]]> By: Colette http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/2009/11/09/bdsm-genre/comment-page-1/#comment-509 Colette Wed, 11 Nov 2009 01:05:41 +0000 http://smokinhotbooks.com/blog/?p=754#comment-509 The only book I've read from that genre was a Jaid Black book...which wasn't too bad, why I can't get into those books when like you I have no problem of the bodice tearing hero I don't know. The only book I’ve read from that genre was a Jaid Black book…which wasn’t too bad, why I can’t get into those books when like you I have no problem of the bodice tearing hero I don’t know.

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